I'd like to tell you my story. Please watch this video.
This site is current, as of May 2020.
WHERE I LIVE: Adelaide is the capital of South Australia. It's a cultured city of 1.3m, and one of the most liveable cities in the world. It rarely rains, and the temperature is usually nice and warm. It's a great place to be, and you'll love it here. You can work, study, or just enjoy the high life. Yes, you can be from overseas. Contact me, and if we get along really well, I'll organise for you to visit, and you can decide if you want to stay.
CORONAVIRUS EXTRA: If you're a potential partner from overseas, you can come to visit once things return to normal, which will presumably be in a few months. Until then, we'll have lots of time to get to know each other.
MY WORK: My professional profile is here, if it interests you. The important parts are that I'm an internet entrepreneur, investor, and that I studied Genetics at Adelaide University. I'm a creative person, and my current creative passion is designing board games. My first game was signed for publication recently.
PERSONALITY: I'm an INTJ. These Myers-Briggs personality types aren't scientifically very sound, but people like them.
I'm a confident, positive, and outgoing person. I have a great group of friends, and good relationships with family. I have an excellent sense of humour, and I love to make people laugh. There's no good reason I don't have a partner, other than that I'm looking for something so specific.
I probably spend too much time in my own head, and it's okay if you're the same. There are so many interesting things to think about, and the world is a fascinating place. I like to talk about things bigger than day-to-day life, rather than engage in gossip about people or local events. I'd love to have someone who's educated and informed, and wants to connect on an intellectual level. If you enjoy talking about philosophy. literature, science, or anything academic, that would be even better.
AGE: I'm thirty-nine years old. I have the experience and wisdom of someone older, but I look younger. If you're looking for someone who has their act together, I'll be a good choice. If you're looking for someone to party with, I'm probably not a good choice. I don't have any specific age range of partner I'm looking for.
I'm exactly six feet (183cm) tall, which is taller than 80% of men my age.
THE FUTURE: Yes, we can start out as friends. I'm not in a hurry, and a great relationship needs to be built on top of a wonderful friendship.
It would be nice to have a family, and I have the maturity and resources to do that now, but I'm in no hurry. I'm open to getting married, if it's something a partner wants to do.
I have bigger plans and projects for the future, but nothing I can discuss here. :) I'm always working on something interesting or creative.
I'm being very productive during this lockdown, and keeping in good mental and physical shape, even though everything is cancelled.
RELIGION & POLITICS: I'm not religious. I don't mind what you believe, but if it's an important part of your life, it might lead to some disagreements that would be irreconcilable. I'll leave this up to your judgement.
I don't mind where on the political spectrum you are, as long as you're not hyper-partisan either way, or highly agitated.
EXPERIENCE: Despite my own lack of experience, I realise most people above a certain age have gone beyond holding hands and kissing. I'm just looking for one of the few people who haven't done anything more than that. I understand that people have had all kinds of different experiences, and have been in all kinds of different circumstances – some very good, some very bad. I'm in no position to judge anyone else. I'm just looking for someone like me, which is hard to find these days.
SOME WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT: Some of the women who contact me have never made any real effort to find a partner. They'd certainly like to have a partner, but they've decided that they're okay on their own. Some have just been very busy, like me. If this is you, I hope you'll step out of your comfort zone just slightly, and see where this strange rabbit hole takes you, unless you're planning on never having a partner.
I've found that, even when things don't work out with someone, it almost always ends on good terms, and it's certainly been helpful for both sides to put a toe in the water, and start thinking about what they really want in a partner.
THE SEARCH: Yes, I am an entirely real person, and this is a completely genuine search for love. I'll very clearly update this page when I find someone, as many people are curious.
There are many women who are intellectual, and many who have the same level of experience as me. It's just hard to find someone who is both. This is what makes this search so difficult, and means I need to advertise far and wide. I receive contacts every day, but almost none are a match.
CONTACTING ME: Email me by using the box below, or directly, at this address. Just a sentence or two is enough, to get things going. If you're on a messaging app (like Skype), or if you'd like to connect on social media, please feel free to include it.
I don't wish to engage any services, or be in any media.
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